How Can You Help Your Church?

Whose hatred is covered by deceit, his wickedness shall be shewed before the whole congregation. Proverbs 26:26

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Hateful people lie to cover their wickedness (Pr 26:24-26). But God promised to expose them. It is terrible there are such people, but it is worse that they get into churches. The place designed as a refuge of brotherly love can have lurking danger by malicious men.

Wicked men get into most churches. It is a terrible evil, but it happens. Though filled with arrogance, hatred, and selfishness, they creep into churches with false professions of religion. Even the world knows this fact, for many reject Christianity for its hypocrisy. But though such sinners cover their hatred by lies, their evil souls will be fully exposed.

What a great God! What a helpful proverb! God teaches you how to discern liars, and He promises to take care of them for you. Bible wisdom can help you perceive a person with hateful and wicked motives, and faith in God can comfort you that He will fully expose the lying monster. Faith and learning have their rewards. Love such truth and wisdom.

This proverb has a rare context to help its interpretation. Solomon had been describing the dangerous evil of talebearers (Pr 26:20-23). These wicked persons love to spread harmful facts, rumors, tales, and insinuations about others. They hurt others deeply, and they cause contention and strife among the members of any group. They do not know the way of peace themselves, and they also keep others from enjoying peace and security.

They play the hypocrite with their mouths by claiming to be Christians, while their hearts plan games of pretence and revenge (Pr 26:24). Wise men do not believe their fair words, for they know many evil imaginations are in their hearts (Pr 26:25). Wisdom is the power of right judgment, the ability to discern and know things that deceive most other people.

What identifies these wicked imposters? They speak derogatorily about others and spread harmful facts or slanderous innuendos (Pr 26:20-25). Just listen to their speech about others, and you can discover them. They can hardly stop criticizing and sowing discord by negative information. They are backbiters, slanderers, talebearers, and whisperers.

When a person hates others, the Bible says it proves him a child of the devil (Jn 8:44; I Jn 2:9,11; 3:10,15; 4:8,20). When you detect the critical, hateful, and snide spirit of some toward others, you have likely found a child of the devil. Is this judgment too harsh? Remember Jesus and “the apostle of love” provided the cross-references. God is love, and those truly the children of God will show God is in them by their love (I Jn 4:7-16).

Though these haters lie and pretend to be loving Christians, God will expose them to save His true saints. David begged God to save his kingdom from such strange children – hypocrites that use vain speech and false handshakes to pretend love and piety (Ps 144:7-11). There are great benefits for a church to get rid of such false persons (Ps 144:12-15).

Paul told the Corinthian church that God would send heresies into His churches to discover these lying frauds and confirm the identity of His true children (I Cor 11:19). So while heresies are a painful matter to deal with in a church, they are often used to expose the lying hypocrites that cause dissension and strife. The end result is well worth the pain.

God’s distillation process is precious. Distillation is a method used to separate a mixture into its component parts, where the desired component will be at a much higher strength than diluted in the mixture. The God of heaven is constantly at work distilling His faithful churches by removing the impure elements to refine and improve the remainder.

Absalom was Solomon’s brother and David’s son. He lied to Israel about how much he cared for them to steal the throne (II Sa 15:1-6). But God exposed his hatred and left him hanging by his hair in a tree for Joab’s darts (II Sa 18:9-15). Judas conspired in hatred with the Jews against Jesus, and the other apostles had no idea (John 13:21-30). But God exposed his hatred and dashed his bowels over a field (Matt 27:1-10; Acts 1:18-20).

How can you help your church? Never speak negatively about anyone, unless absolutely necessary for those in authority or for scriptural duty. If you cannot say something kind or commending, do not say anything. Make it your goal to promote the reputations of all men, even your personal enemies. This is true Christianity (Matt 5:43-48; Phil 2:1-4).

How can you help your church? If you hear someone criticizing, backbiting, gossiping, or slandering others, stop them by an angry face or warning rebuke (Pr 25:23; Ps 101:5; I Thess 5:14). God hates this sin, and so should you (Pr 6:16-19). A wife may do this even to a foolish husband, if she is discrete and respectful like Abigail (I Sam 25:3,19,36-37).

Jesus Christ is the Head of His churches, and He constantly walks among them, visible to the eye of faith (Rev 3:1). He exposed the lie of Ananias and his wife Sapphira in the church at Jerusalem (Acts 5:1-11). He cut down many selfish and profane souls in the church at Corinth (I Cor 11:30). He promised death to Jezebel and her followers in the church at Thyatira (Rev 2:20-23), and He comforted and exhorted the rest (Rev 2:24-27).

This God you can trust no matter what. Hateful liars claiming to love God and be your friends can be frightening and worrisome. But He has promised to take care of them by exposing them, and He has promised to take care of you by protecting you. He has sent His glorious Son, the King of heaven, to guard and protect you and every true church. Have you committed your life and church entirely to Him? You will never regret it.

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18 thoughts on “How Can You Help Your Church?

    1. Same here, Elizabeth. I’ve seen a church split and then close up because of such people as these in the church. Perhaps these words of wisdom may be heeded by a few to prevent another such sad occurrence …

      Have a blessed day, sister! amen~

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  1. FTA: “Be ye not unequally yoked together.” This applies first to our religious or ecclesiastical connections. How many Christians are members of so-called “churches,” where much is going on which they know is at direct variance with the Word of God either the teaching from the pulpit, the worldly attractions used to draw the ungodly, and the worldly methods employed to finance it or the constant receiving into its membership of those who give no evidence of having been born again. Believers in Christ who remain in such “churches” are dishonoring their Lord. Should they answer: “Practically all the churches are the same, and were we to resign, what could we do? We must go somewhere on Sundays,” such language would show they are putting their own interests before the glory of Christ. Better stay at home and read God’s Word, than fellowship that which His Word condemns.

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  2. Sherry, I’m so glad to read this. So glad I decided not to post on the topic that has consumed me lately.

    Hi, Elizabeth! Sometimes we must be away from church for a while. It can confuse us because we know the Lord wants us together, not forsaking our assembling. My prayer is that you and your loved ones will find a loving Biblical church!

    Lord bless and help you both, S and E!

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    1. Thank you for your prayers, Maria! We can rest assured that our Lord has compassion on the sheep who have been scattered by the false shepherds.

      Ezekiel 34:16King James Version (KJV)

      I will seek that which was lost, and bring again that which was driven away, and will bind up that which was broken, and will strengthen that which was sick: but I will destroy the fat and the strong; I will feed them with judgment.

      May God bless you as you sort out your dilemma. Going to church-you obey God. Not going to a church that practices pagan holy days and thus, a different Jesus is worshiped, (or for some, preach a false doctrine) you also obey God. Let God weigh it in His scales-He will not allow you to be in disobedience to Him because in your heart you desire to obey Him. Give God the praise! \o/

      {{hugs}}

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      1. Oh, thank you so much, Sherry! You know, wisdom is a treasure we need to seek until we find – thank you for the reminders, explanations, prayers!!

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      2. I may have said this before and I am REALLY sorry if I am repeating myself. BUT the number of protestants going back into some of the practices of Catholicism shocked me when the Lord lead me out! I truly could not believe it. The more I read the Words Of God the more I see the end of times God has prophesied of in HIs written Word! AMEN, LADIES TO ALL THAT HAS BEEN SPOKEN HERE!

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        1. Amen, Elizabeth! Mercy, grace, and peace to you!
          It is shocking to me too. We have a lovely neighbor who entered the Catholic Church.

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        2. Thank you for your encouragement, women of God! The devil is making it harder to witness using this “new” pope. But those that want to TRULY know God will seek Him and find Him!

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    2. Let me say this, too: You and Tom refrain from attending during those “holy” seasons because you know the truth of them. Is it not a witness to God’s holiness and Word to the congregants and leadership when they learn the reason why? With your prayers and witness God may very well grant them repentance! Let it be so, dear Lord! amen! \o/

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  3. I have been around “those people” and I like your advice. I would a couple of “dos” to your “don’ts”: do smile at people in church, even at the preacher during the sermon; do compliment people (the preacher, the musicians, the people who bring home-baked treats) on the work that they do for the church and its Lord. J.

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